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Sunday, May 31

The Impossible Miracle



This is the Impossible Miracle that landed Keith in the 1st-Ever British Christian Rock Band in America...

"But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love Him (1 Corinthians 2:9).”
In 1977 Keith was the drummer for a secular rock band. We were traveling on a concert tour across the southeastern quarter of the nation. While I was on tour, I began to feel a tug on my heart that I would come to realize was the gentle tug of The Holy Spirit.
At the time this was taking place, I did not know that The Holy Spirit was at work in me. It was not until well after this that I would learn that The Holy Spirit is actually "a person". Up to this moment in time, I had always thought The Holy Spirit was some mysterious heavenly gas, at best.
Needless to say, my rock and roll lifestyle was diametrically opposed to the ways of God. However, in the eyes of the world it looked like I had it made. I was doing what I was passionate about: playing music and getting the attention and praise of people everywhere we went. As far as I knew, things could not have been better. I always had plenty of money in my pocket and an abundant supply of everything that went with the lifestyle of being on the road and playing rock-n-roll shows. It was all downright euphoric, at first. In fact, for the first couple of years that I was on the road with the band, I was having a blast!
Our routine went something like this: travel to the city where we were scheduled to perform; check into the hotel; load our equipment into the venue and get set up; do a sound check; get something to eat; get showered; change into our stage clothes; perform the show; take all of the gear and equipment down to pack into all of the travel cases; load everything out of the venue and into the truck; go back to the hotel and party until about 5:00am with a group of “New Friends” that we had met during the concert; sleep for about six hours; wake up, get ready, and pack our luggage to move out; eat breakfast at lunch time; check out of the hotel; and travel to the next town where we would start to do it all over again.
I had been on tour for about four years when I started to sense my affections toward the whole thing beginning to change. The life I had been enjoying for those years, strangely, began feeling like a drudgery.
Instead of looking forward to the next gig, I was beginning to see it as a painfully monotonous thing. The phrase, “Same old thing–just different faces in a different city" became one that I found myself using with growing regularity. The realities of “road life” were starting to set in and wear on me, and I found myself getting high more often to break the boredom of “the routine” where I once did only got high for the fun of it. With each passing day, I felt things getting more and more mundane.
While I could tell that something was changing in me, I couldn’t quite put my finger on what it was or what exactly was happening. What really puzzled me was how I was traveling with guys who had been on the road for much longer than me who seemed perfectly content. How is it that they “want” to do this for the rest of their lives?
Why is it that I am growing more and more unhappy? I was in the prime of my life living out one of my life-long dreams. From the time I was very young, one of my goals in life was to play music and concerts for a living! What I truly thought I wanted to do, living the dream I had dreamed ever since I was a young boy, was not bringing me the happiness I thought it would. I was starting to see the lifestyle for what it really was--a lonely road to a fruitless end. Now all I wanted to do was to get out of it.
So, there I was, surrounded by talented musicians that were attractive and financially well-to-do, being admired by people everywhere we went, but feeling myself becoming more and more isolated. I began to avoid the nightly “New Friends” parties. I would just go back to the hotel and watch TV in my room, something I hadn’t really done much before.
Shortly after this rather-confusing conversion began happening in my life, the band hired a new bass player named Larry Tamazo, a quiet guy and one of the most talented bass players I had ever worked with. Larry and I hit it off pretty well and started hanging out together. Before long, Larry noticed I was avoiding the party scenes where the rest of the band went every night. I, and you, will soon see that “it was God who brought Larry into the picture.”
One morning around 4:00 I was in my hotel room trying to make sense of everything I was feeling. I was wondering what I was supposed to do now. Should I stay with the band, or go back into sales where I had experience from earlier in my life, or what?
All of a sudden, for the first time since I was a boy, I began to see myself back at about eight years old, sitting with my mom and dad in church. I remembered going up to the altar and giving my life to Jesus Christ. I began to feel again how great my feeling of joy was that day, and it overwhelmed me again like it did back then. I remembered feeling that way for the whole week that followed. Even though I was only eight at the time when I first made my decision for Christ, the feeling I had that day was back, fresh again, the best day of my life all over again!
Suddenly, laying there in that hotel bed, I just knew what I had to do. I knew I had to call out to Jesus once again! I was overcome with the reality that I needed, and wanted, to confess my sins and to repent of my sins just as I had done in church so many years before.
I slid off of my bed onto the floor, bowed my head, and asked Jesus Christ to forgive me of everything that I had ever done that had hurt Him or anyone else. I then said “Amen” and crawled back into my bed. I immediately felt a peace and a joy like I had experienced at the altar as a child.
At breakfast that afternoon, I could hardly wait to tell Larry what had happened. He sat there and, as he listened, he smiled. In that very moment, an older waitress walked up to our table, looked straight into my eyes and said, “Son, you are a Christian aren’t you!?!” As simple as that may sound, it was a huge confirmation to me that God had indeed come into my heart as a result of my prayer just hours before.
Each night after that I could hardly wait to get back to my room to “hang out” with Jesus. As the weeks passed, the Holy Spirit was making it increasingly evident that I was not where God wanted me to be. I was feeling like a total stranger next to everyone I had once been so close to.
One day as I was in my room getting ready to do a show I had an interesting thought. Since music is what I do best, then why not do it for God instead of doing it “for the Devil”? As far me, having that idea was radical because I thought music in the church world was only boring “gospel quartets” and choirs. As much as I disliked the thought of playing “church-style” music, I hated the thought of not playing in service to God even more.
That night I kneeled beside my bed and prayed, “Lord, if you want me to play in a gospel quartet or for a church choir, I’ll pursue whatever You want me to just so I can use my music to serve You.” Believe me, making a commitment to play with a quartet or choir meant that I was truly surrendering my music and life to God. Placing my music “on the alter” that day felt the way I imagine Abraham felt placing Isaac on the alter of sacrifice (Genesis 22) before The LORD.
After I had prayed, I paused to think for a moment. Then I went back to God to throw in another request that I hoped He would answer with favor above my first prayer concerning a quartet or choir. Truthfully, though, I thought that my second or “add-on” request was so far-fetched that God, Himself, could not make it happen.
I had heard somewhere that God would grant us the desires of our hearts. That led me to the thought that, if there was ever a time for asking God for it all, for my heart’s absolute deepest desire, why not now? Why settle for anything less, or something I know He knows I’m not passionate about?
See, I was raised listening to and admiring British bands and musicians. I used to dream of getting to play in a British rock group one day. Remembering how I thought that church music only consisted of old gospel quartets and choirs, I decided to step out on a limb and ask God for the impossible; I asked Him to allow me to tour with a “British Christian Rock” band, something I was sure never existed in the past, and most likely never would exist.
Two days later, I went to my hotel room after finishing the night’s show. When I turned on the TV I could not believe what I was seeing with my own eyes! It was a late night Christian concert program called “Larry Leigh’s Concert Ministries.” Playing on the TV was a Christian rock band. I was stunned. I sat on the end of the bed watching the entire show hardly moving a muscle. I can remember thinking, “Wow, there is a whole world out there that I never knew existed!”
As the program was ending I knew that I had to get any and all of the information about the show including who it was that aired it that night. I reached for a piece of paper and a pen and wrote down the contact information showing on the screen. Right then, at 3:00 in the morning, so excited about learning this new thing, I wrote Larry Leigh a letter to explain much of what I have shared here, and to ask if he knew of any Christian bands in need of an experienced drummer. I put the letter in an envelope, sealed it, put a stamp on it, and took it straight to the outgoing mail box at the hotel’s front desk.
Incidentally, while on the road I used my mother as my point of contact and used her mailing address as my own. I called her later that same day to tell her the story about Larry Leigh and the letter I sent to him. She told me that she would keep a look-out for an envelope from him and would contact me if anything arrived.
Two cities, six days later I got a call from Mom telling me that I had received a letter from Larry Leigh. She asked if I would like for her to read it to me. With great expectation I, of course, said, “Yes! Please!”
The letter read, “Dear Keith, thank you for your letter. I do not know of any Christian bands looking for a drummer at this time, but I have enclosed two pages of Christian booking agencies for you to check out. Maybe one of them can help in your search for God’s plan for your life.”
Mom said there were 24 agencies on the list. I asked her to mail the list to the next city hotel where we were scheduled to stay. She said she would send a copy first thing the next morning.
As soon as I received the list of agencies, I knew what I had to do. I drew up my resume (I jokingly tell people that my major in college was football and that my minor was business). Then I wrote a heartfelt cover letter and went across the street from the hotel to a quaint little print shop to ask for 30 matching sets of my cover letter, my resume, and envelope. The clerk told me that they would be ready the next day.
When I returned to the print shop the next day, I was greeted by the clerk accompanied by a very nice, classy-looking, middle-aged lady introduced to me as having read my cover letter and being greatly blessed by it. At that, the nice lady said, “Keith, the owner of this company and I want you to know that we are not going to charge you for the work that we have done on your resume and letter. Your consuming desire to serve Jesus Christ has touched us all deeply! We would consider it a privilege to give these packets to you free of charge.” Wow! I must have thanked them at least 20 times before I said goodbye and headed straight for my hotel room to get the packets ready to mail.
Once I finished, I grabbed the prepared packets and held them up to the heavens asking God to receive them, and my life, as my gift to Him. Isn’t it interesting how I knew to do that without being taught? The Holy Spirit is wonder-full!
Next, I drove to the nearest U. S. Postal Service. I prayed once more for God’s blessing over the packets, then I dropped them into the mailbox. Each day and night I continued praying that God would get just one of them into the hands of the right person.
About three weeks later, as I was setting up with the band in Panama City, Florida, someone from the front office shouted, “Keith, you have an important phone call.” When I picked up the phone, it was Mom asking me, “Are you sitting down?” I said that I was. She then read a letter from a Christian booking agency located in Nashville, TN. “Keith, I received your letter, was very impressed with you your credentials, and would like to talk with you as soon as possible. I think I have something that will be of great interest to you.” Mom gave me the phone number and we hung up.
Without delay, I called the agent. He said, “Keith, what I have to offer you is something that is completely different than anything the Christian music industry in this country has ever had the privilege to experience. This is going to be huge! As a matter of fact, it is going to be a history-making endeavor, and I would like to invite you to audition for it.” Somewhat reluctantly I asked him, “What have you got?” Like Saul’s experience encountering Jesus Christ on his journey on the road to Damascus (Acts 9:1-19), hearing the agent’s answer would change my life forever. He asked me, “Keith, how would you feel about being the drummer for the first ever British Christian rock band to come to America?”
Needless to say, I was stunned! With that one phone call I was witnessing God do something that I just knew was “totally impossible”. This was one of those stories that you only read about, but there I was standing right in the middle of it.
A week later, I flew to Nashville to audition for the band. They picked me up at the airport and we headed straight downtown where the recording studio they had rented for the audition was located. The studio had been closed down for several weeks and, consequently, the instruments were out of tune.
The heads on all of the drums were loose, making them impossible to play. We looked everywhere for a drum key, or even a pair of pliers, that we could use to tighten the drum heads. We couldn’t find anything that worked to tune them. We tried to squeeze out a song or two, but it was fruitless. No matter what I tried to play, it sounded terrible.
Feeling a bit dejected, we packed up and headed for a local restaurant. All I could think of was how much I wanted to play in the band with those guys. At that point, it all seemed to be falling apart right before my eyes. Why was this happening? The reason would soon reveal itself.
Over dinner, as we were talking, it was becoming increasingly evident to all of us that God was knitting our hearts together. Even though the audition did not go well, we were having a great time together. We finished eating and headed for the van.
I knew I had to do something if I wanted to salvage my dream. So I stopped the guys and asked, “Where is your bass player?” It turned out that they were auditioning bass players as well. I said boldly, “Brothers, this whole thing is God, I just know it!” I went on to tell them that I have a friend named Larry who is a great bass player. Then, with all of the boldness I could muster, I said, “You guys need to come to Florida and hear Larry and I working together on stage as the accomplished rhythm section that we have become. I guarantee you will like it!”
Standing on that sidewalk that night in Nashville, Tennessee, the guys looked around at one another and decided, “You’ve got it, we’ll come to Florida!” We set a date. It would be just one week later when the group of guys would come to our show in Florida!
The next week, as the guys sat through our entire show, I must admit that it was pretty nerve-racking to be playing on the stage as three internationally-known musicians watched us. They were talking back and forth among themselves. I expected they were critiquing our every move.
After the show, I introduced Larry to them. My heart felt as if it was going to pound out of my chest as we all sat down together. I was nervous but excited to hear what our new British friends thought of our performance. Our new British friends looked at one another very calmly, asking who wanted to comment first. I think I was sweating more at that moment than I had all night under the intense stage lights.
The first to speak was the band’s highly-acclaimed lead guitarist and vocalist from Liverpool, Norman Barrett. Norman had played with several bands from England that I greatly admired. The next to speak was the band’s keyboard player and vocalist from London, Phil Holmes. He had an eloquence like nobody else when he spoke. Alwyn, the band’s leader from Nottinghamshire, spoke last. What each of them said filled my heart with unspeakable and overflowing joy!
All three of them then leaned across the table and Alwyn said, “Keith, if you will take the gig, and we pray you will, it’s yours!” I said, “Larry too?” They all shook their head in agreement as Alwyn said, “Yes! Of course!” All of us shook hands, hugged one another, and it was done!
That night we saw the first-ever British Christian rock band to come to America completed–the miraculous fulfillment of the prayer that I didn’t think even God, Himself, was big enough to make happen. Believe me when I tell you that, no matter what you are going through, there is NOthing too big for God!
The next day, to celebrate, we all met on the sugar-white sand beaches of Panama City, Florida. After swimming and enjoying the beach with our three new band mates, we all ate dinner together before saying “see you later”. They headed back to Nashville.
Larry and I joined them two weeks later. The name of the band was “The Alwyn Wall Band” and was signed by Myrrh (Word) Records. The year that I spent working with Alwyn and all of the guys in the band was the best time of my life... as the drummer for “the 1st-ever British Christian Rock Band to come to America!”
Over the course of our time touring America together, Alwyn and Norman taught me how to play the basic, simple, open chords on guitar. Since then, I have practiced and used those seven chords to write countless of my own songs over the years. I have played, and continue to play, my simple guitar songs to minister The Gospel of Jesus Christ wherever I can. My ministries, both as a soloist and as leader of my own bands, have all been a continuation of my time with “me wonder-full mates from England”, playing in various venues like music halls, performance theaters, colleges, concert auditoriums, military installations, recording studios, and church facilities of all sizes and denominations.
We, at Toward The Mark, share this “Impossible Miracle” testimony with you to make one most important point... If God can do for one of us what we just knew was simply impossible, He can and most certainly will do it for you too!
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Thursday, April 30

Dynamite Really Does Come in Small Packages


These mini-books are written to provide a sampling of real-life encounters with The Holy Trinity. This ministry series is the fruit of a life of praying without ceasing to ask God, Jesus Christ, and The Holy Spirit for help and divine revelation in every-day experiences, big and small...

"Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asks receives; and he that seeks finds; and to him that knocks it shall be opened (Matthew 7:7-8).”
Anyone pursuing an intimate relationship with God will have or be presented with questions about God, Jesus Christ, The Holy Spirit. Meeting with The Holy Spirit in the pages of God’s Holy written Word is the way we learn and grow in the wonder-full Nature of Jesus Christ, by faith. This we have learned, and share on a daily basis in our life, together, with The Holy Trinity.
In our first mini-book of this series, you will join us on an experience that The LORD provided concerning “faith”. The “3 Keys to God-pleasing Faith” experience came about to fill our hearts, and the heart of anyone reading it, with answers to questions like, “What is so important about faith that Scriptures say that we cannot please God without it?” One chapter in God’s written Word, in The Epistle of Paul The Apostle to the Hebrews, encourages us and countless millions of Christ-followers to this day with its defining moments of faith that pleases God…
"Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. For by it the elders obtained a good report. Through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of things which do appear. By faith Abel offered unto God a more excellent sacrifice than Cain, by which he obtained witness that he was righteous, God testifying of his gifts: and by it he being dead yet speaketh. By faith Enoch was translated that he should not see death; and was not found, because God had translated him: for before his translation he had this testimony, that he pleased God. But without faith it is impossible to please Him: for he that comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of them that diligently seek Him. By faith Noah, being warned of God of things not seen as yet, moved with fear, prepared an ark to the saving of his house; by the which he condemned the world, and became heir of the righteousness which is by faith. By faith Abraham, when he was called to go out into a place which he should after receive for an inheritance, obeyed; and he went out, not knowing whither he went. By faith he sojourned in the land of promise, as in a strange country, dwelling in tabernacles with Isaac and Jacob, the heirs with him of the same promise: For he looked for a city which hath foundations, whose builder and maker is God. Through faith also Sara herself received strength to conceive seed, and was delivered of a child when she was past age, because she judged Him faithful Who had promised. Therefore sprang there even of one, and him as good as dead, so many as the stars of the sky in multitude, and as the sand which is by the sea shore innumerable. These all died in faith, not having received the promises, but having seen them afar off, and were persuaded of them, and embraced them, and confessed that they were strangers and pilgrims on the earth. For they that say such things declare plainly that they seek a country. And truly, if they had been mindful of that country from whence they came out, they might have had opportunity to have returned. But now they desire a better country, that is, an heavenly: wherefore God is not ashamed to be called their God: for He hath prepared for them a city. By faith Abraham, when he was tried, offered up Isaac: and he that had received the promises offered up his only begotten son, Of whom it was said, That in Isaac shall thy seed be called: Accounting that God was able to raise him up, even from the dead; from whence also he received him in a figure. By faith Isaac blessed Jacob and Esau concerning things to come. By faith Jacob, when he was a dying, blessed both the sons of Joseph; and worshipped, leaning upon the top of his staff. By faith Joseph, when he died, made mention of the departing of the children of Israel; and gave commandment concerning his bones. By faith Moses, when he was born, was hid three months of his parents, because they saw he was a proper child; and they were not afraid of the king's commandment. By faith Moses, when he was come to years, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh's daughter; Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season; Esteeming the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures in Egypt: for he had respect unto the recompence of the reward. By faith he forsook Egypt, not fearing the wrath of the king: for he endured, as seeing Him Who is invisible. Through faith he kept the passover, and the sprinkling of blood, lest he that destroyed the firstborn should touch them. By faith they passed through the Red sea as by dry land: which the Egyptians assaying to do were drowned. By faith the walls of Jericho fell down, after they were compassed about seven days. By faith the harlot Rahab perished not with them that believed not, when she had received the spies with peace. And what shall I more say? for the time would fail me to tell of Gideon, and of Barak, and of Samson, and of Jephthah; of David also, and Samuel, and of the prophets: Who through faith subdued kingdoms, wrought righteousness, obtained promises, stopped the mouths of lions. Quenched the violence of fire, escaped the edge of the sword, out of weakness were made strong, waxed valiant in fight, turned to flight the armies of the aliens. Women received their dead raised to life again: and others were tortured, not accepting deliverance; that they might obtain a better resurrection: And others had trials of cruel mocking and scourging, yea, moreover of bonds and imprisonment: They were stoned, they were sawn asunder, were tempted, were slain with the sword: they wandered about in sheepskins and goatskins; being destitute, afflicted, tormented; (Of whom the world was not worthy:) they wandered in deserts, and in mountains, and in dens and caves of the earth. And these all, having obtained a good report through faith, received not the promise: God having provided some better thing for us, that they without us should not be made perfect (Hebrews 11:1-40).”
If you want to move in the faith that pleases God personally, you are among friends with that very same passion here at Toward The Mark. The question is, “If this most important of gifts pleases God, just how do we go about obtaining it?” We invite you to send your e-mail request for your copy of this mini-book, with subject, “I want the kind of faith that makes God happy” today. As soon as we receive your email request we will get your little book, with the defining “faith” moments between us and God, in the mail to you right away!
Our second mini-book brings you life-changing experiences that The LORD used to provide clarity concerning “compromise” in the life of a Christian. When The Holy Spirit tugged on Keith’s heart to help God’s people that he saw being tempted and deceived by spirits of the enemy, Keith wrote about it in the teaching letter called, “Too Quick to Compromise”, now in mini-book. God’s written Word is clear about when the devil (the thief) and his demon spirits come calling, teaching us in John 10:10, “The thief comes not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.” Add the wisdom of Who God is in Psalm 104, studying “The Nature of God” in the natural things all around us, and we become bound to accept only the defining things of The LORD in our Life of abundance IN HIM…
"Bless The LORD, O my soul. O Lord my God, You are very great; You are clothed with honor and majesty. Who covers Thyself with light as with a garment: Who stretches out the heavens like a curtain: Who lays the beams of His chambers in the waters: Who makes the clouds His chariot: Who walks upon the wings of the wind: Who makes His angels spirits; His ministers a flaming fire: Who laid the foundations of the earth, that it should not be removed for ever. Thou coveredst it with the deep as with a garment: the waters stood above the mountains. At Your rebuke they fled; at the voice of Your thunder they hasted away. They go up by the mountains; they go down by the valleys unto the place which You have founded for them. You have set a bound that they may not pass over; that they turn not again to cover the earth. He sends the springs into the valleys, which run among the hills. They give drink to every beast of the field: the wild asses quench their thirst. By them shall the fowls of the heaven have their habitation, which sing among the branches. He waters the hills from His chambers: the earth is satisfied with the fruit of Your works. He causes the grass to grow for the cattle, and herb for the service of man: that he may bring forth food out of the earth; And wine that makes glad the heart of man, and oil to make his face to shine, and bread which strengthens man's heart. The trees of The LORD are full of sap; the cedars of Lebanon, which He has planted; Where the birds make their nests: as for the stork, the fir trees are her house. The high hills are a refuge for the wild goats; and the rocks for the conies. He appointed the moon for seasons: the sun knows his going down. You made darkness, and it is night: wherein all the beasts of the forest do creep forth. The young lions roar after their prey, and seek their meat from God. The sun arises, they gather themselves together, and lay them down in their dens. Man goes forth unto his work and to his labor until the evening (Psalm 104:1-23).”
Anyone pursuing oneness with The Trinity will, at times, be presented with opportunities to compromise in their pursuit of becoming one with God. Each one of us must be vigilant to seek God’s Word daily and to pray without ceasing in order to remain steadfast, immovable, and unyielding in our Life with Jesus Christ. We must come to the place in our hearts where we know, without a shadow of a doubt, “There is nobody and nothing worth compromising our relationship with Jesus Christ!”
We invite you to send your e-mail request today for your copy of this mini-book. Please be sure to include the subject, “A Steadfast Life with Christ is not ‘Too Quick to Compromise’” in your email. As soon as we receive your request we will get your little book in the mail to you right away!
The next mini-book in our series is based on an experience that provided clarity concerning “sin” and the “misrepresentation” of God and His Word today. The heart of anyone reading “The Abomination of Misrepresentation” will be presented with the truth about the Christian faith. What passes for Christianity today bears little to no resemblance to the teachings of The LORD Jesus Christ. Much like paint that is diluted to the point that it becomes useless, God and His Word are being diluted to the point that The Gospel of Jesus Christ is “misrepresented as useless” in the eyes of the masses of uneducated, inexperienced, unbelieving Believers everywhere. We ignore this to our own destruction!...
"These six things doth The LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto Him: A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, A heart that devises wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief, A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren (Proverb 6:16-19).”
If you have ever been falsely accused, if you have ever been blamed for saying or doing something that you never said or did, if you have ever had something that you said or did turned into something so distorted that it literally had nothing in common with what you originally said or did,... then you know the feeling of being falsely represented. Many people experience “misrepresentation” every day and can surely empathize with others experiencing the terrible feelings that come with being falsely represented in the eyes of others. We invite you to send your e-mail request today for your advance copy of this mini-book. Please be sure to include “Advance copy of ‘The Abomination of Misrepresentation’ please” in the subject line of your email. As soon as we receive your request we will let you know when you can expect your little book in the mail!
God desires that each of us abide in Him, that we love Him with all of our hearts, and love our neighbors as ourselves. All of this, of course, is humanly impossible but with God all things are possible. If we will humble ourselves under the mighty and sovereign Word of God, then He will lift us up.
It's a fact... as we walk with God for Him to mold us to become more like Christ Jesus, we get to be God’s faithful witnesses He can use. And our lives become living proof of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the Gospel that Jesus Christ preached. It is our prayer that, as The LORD looks on your life, He will find you passionate for God-pleasing faith, never too quick to compromise, and rightly accused of rightly representing Him in your Life!
We pray God will use this blog and all of our resources to fan the flame in your heart for Christ Jesus, the wonder-full ways and will of God, and His Plan and Purpose for you fulfilled with The Holy Spirit in this life. We are eternally grateful for our loving Toward The Mark Family of sponsors who makes this blog, and all of our resources, possible by their faithful prayer and monthly financial support! If you have any questions about our work, or if you would like to make a special tax-deductible donation, place a special order for any of our books, magazines, or CDs, or have a testimony or prayer request to share with us, please  send your e-mail request today or feel free to write a letter and mail it to TOWARD THE MARK, P.O. Box 1152, Yorktown, VA 23692-1152.
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To Show GOD BIG in a World that Sees Him small… 
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Thursday, February 12

Celebrate Single-ness Preparing for The Prepared

SINGLE-NESS: “the most important part of an original human..." whether married or unmarried.

      Every year during the month of February we see a whole lot of attention turned toward husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends, and the search to find a “sweetheart”. Oddly enough, the qualities we would like in our “sweetheart”, and what we mean by “Will you be my Valentine?” is too-often skipped in Bible studies among Christian friends and family. This week, today, is the perfect time for “preparing for ‘the prepared’” and walking out the truth of “single-ness”.

         We have a faith-building nugget of wisdom that we believe will prove to be as valuable to you as it has been to our family members and ministry friends and acquaintances. You may be surprised to know that, in our 40+ years of experience, we have seen many more guys and ladies come to ask us to join with them in prayer and waiting for God to introduce them to their life-mate than those who “celebrate single-ness”.  Firstly, for anyone not familiar with us as a ministry couple, I (Keith) spent fifty-two years of my life unmarried and learning how to attain single-ness”.

         Like many or even most unmarried individuals, we can honestly tell you it is not easy to be alone or to be patient all the time when we wait for God to answer our prayers.  For me (Keith), some weeks I prayed every day asking God to reveal my mate to me. Some weeks I prayed for God to introduce her to me at certain ministry events or church services. I often walked in quietly wondering, "Is 'she' going to be here?" I couldn't even tell you how many well-meaning people would come up to me to say things like, "God must be preparing a really amazing girl for you" or "Don’t worry because, when you finally meet her, you’ll just know she’s 'the one'!"

         Week after week, month after month, year after year, and decade after decade, I couldn't seem to silence the voices in my head although I lived an active, busy life that was not really consumed with "finding her".  No matter where I went, like a pesky little brother that your mom makes you take along with you wherever you want to go, those annoying voices would sound off asking questions like, "Is she here?… Is she?  Is she??"  Each time the voices started up again, I thought to myself, "If I could just get my hands on those loud rascals... !"

         There I was, a minister at a great church, a dream football career, a dream music career that led me to start The Keith Shealy Band for touring and recording my own songs, a great group of young adults learning to lead like Jesus,... I could go on and on. I was the guy who, people so-often said, "had it all together". Little did they know that, because all of my friends were married, I spent years eating alone in restaurants, coming home from the Church alone, watching Sunday afternoon football games alone, and doing everything I could think of to help to silence the deafening screams of loneliness. I would all-but beg God to tell me what it was that was wrong with me so I could change it. All I wanted was for God to help prepare me for meeting the lady I was praying for.

         Well, the day came when I just knew I finally had a plan that would silence those voices of loneliness.  I decided I would out-smart the voices by convincing myself that I was born without 'the marriage gene'! I thought to myself that t-h-a-t will surely shut those voices down.

         I admit, to my disappointment, my plan did not work at all. Just like every other thing I tried doing “on my own” I had no success to speak of. The voices continued.

         By the time I turned forty years old, I knew that those voices won't just shut up. That’s when I finally decided to drown 'em out with God's written Word!  That was the very BEST decision I had ever made in my life up to that point!!

         I began to seek God and meditate on His written and spoken Word, and with great diligence like never before.  It was only then that the volume of those voices, which I knew were not God’s, lowered... From deafening, to annoying, to tolerable-like whispers, at least for the most part.

         Finally, I learned that "I" had to stop dwelling on things that were not of God... like most TV shows. I finally stopped to realize how destructive and suggestive most prime-time television programs had become. I knew that I had to do something about that. So, I called the cable company and canceled my TV cable!

         Now, turning off my TV became the first of five steps to become tried-and-proven disciplines, five key things that The Holy Spirit used to teach me what being truly single means. If you want God's blessing of a life-mate like only He can bring, you will learn and follow these five steps, below. These practical steps will work for you, and anyone who seeks a blessed Life-mate, if practiced in faith. Here’s your plan to start today, right now... and to make, as your Life-goal, preparing for the prepared you are praying for and to, in turn, “Celebrate Single-ness!”

1)   Turn off the TV!  If you look to Hollywood to set your expectations for a mate, loneliness will remain your companion.  Recognize that unreal, or unreasonable, expectations rob us from, not only our peace but, every good thing Jesus Christ wants us to have.  Having said that, I am in no way suggesting that you, or any individual, compromise yourself by settling for someone who you know doesn’t go after God, doesn’t love God wholeheartedly, or doesn’t want to know God’s Word,Will, and Ways.  Besides, marriage is God’s original idea, not man's idea. And it will NOT function correctly with-out (on the outside of) God and His Word.  ~Never forget:  WithOUT GOD... it is NOT Holy Matrimony.~
2)   YOU cannot "FIX 'em"!  If you think you can change someone, you are deceived. Brace yourself for a tumultuous ride.  Only Christ Jesus has the power to change a human heart.  Marriage is not a 50/50 arrangement; it's a 100/100 commitment.  So, relax!  Trust God to introduce you to "a God-blessed possibility."  We must warn you, however, to beware of someone attempting to win your affection with words like, "But I am a Christian." Take time to "watch" for "the fruit" of their life!  Standing in a church building on Sunday or Wednesday makes someone a Christian about as much as your standing in a garage makes you a car.  As a safeguard for us, Jesus teaches in Matthew 7:15-20, Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves.  You will know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes from thorn bushes or figs from thistles?  Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit.  A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit.  Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.  Therefore by their fruits you will know them."
3)   Prepare for what you are praying for. We do NOT want to meet the prepared... unprepared.  Diligently seek God.  Become the kind of person that you've been asking God to bring to you.  Be passionate about, and in love with, God and His Word, His Will, and His Ways.  And do everything as God and His Word tells us to... ‘F’ully ‘R’ely ‘O’n ‘G’od (FROG).  Be sure you take a look in the mirror.  Do you dress, and carry yourself, with the same quality and dignity that you expect in your life-mate?  If not, you can change it!  Remember, it’s all about achieving “single-ness” by “preparing for ‘the prepared’”. Otherwise: it’s “insanity” that does the same thing over and over again while expecting different results. Good news… *You can't BE something you're NOT, but you can BECOME something you're NOT.* 
4)   In the wisdom of the late Dr. Myles Munroe, "You don't get married because you NEED to; You get married because you WANT to!  And you'll never have ‘the want-to' until you don't have ‘the need-to'."
5)   Finally, in many of our churches today, the word "single" is synonymous with "unmarried."  That is, in fact, a very deceptive, demonic revelation.  The truth is, in order for a person to achieve "single-ness” there is a process by which he or she becomes a "Separate, Unique, and Whole" person! That is a “truly single” individual, whether married or unmarried.  "Single-ness" is a crucially important part of a human being and it must be “pursued”! In order for an individual to qualify in “single-ness”, being “the prepared” for marriage, he or she must first become "Separate, Unique, and Whole"!  That means, a person should never consider getting married until they have become truly single first.  Only one who becomes "truly single" can qualify as “the prepared” for marriage.  Becoming "truly single" can only be achieved through Jesus Christ by the tutelage and leading of The Holy Spirit.  We cannot do it without Him.   Becoming "Separate, Unique, and Whole" should be the goal; not "becoming married."  

         About twelve years after God and I walked together “preparing for 'the prepared'", God introduced me to Brenda on the wonder-full SuperBowl Sunday of 2008! From that day on, Bren and I both “Celebrate SINGLE-ness.”  In fact, the more "single" each of us has become, the sweeter our marriage has become, experiencing more blessed fruit of God's Holy Spirit with each passing year... “But the fruit of The Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law (Galatians 5:22-23).

         Love, hope, joy, and fulfillment comes with single-ness, along with so much more i-n God. We have received countless gifts and blessings from The LORD... from our 2 1/2 year courtship, to our wedding “in Holy Matrimony” by Pastors Clay and Dee Davis who have spiritually covered me since 1979, to our life-long prayers, hopes, and dreams coming true in our lives, even to this day.

         Before any of us can be truly ready for marriage, we must first achieve "single-ness." Only becoming successful at "single-ness" prepares us for success in marriage. “Being Separate, Unique, and Whole" is the goal... not just to be married.

         Relax and trust The LORD, He is our Rest! Release any and all unreal or unreasonable expectations... of marriage, God, and others. When we make that first, and each consecutive, step toward Him Who fashioned us, He reaches back and works *with* us, "Draw nigh to God, and He will draw nigh to you… (James 4:8)." Concerning the popular belief that God chooses your mate for you, there's a quote from the late Dr. Myles Munroe to clear that misled idea right up... "God knows, better than anyone, how we often change our minds, so he won’t choose our mate for us in order that we can’t blame Him for a mate we later decide was a bad choice." Instead, He will put someone 'on display' for you and leave you with your will to make your own choice. ~Once you daily pursue ONEness with God, your wisdom and understanding *in Him* changes everything! Your focus on working *with God* will lead you beyond your greatest expectations! Watch and see!!!"~

"SEPARATE": SET-APART from everyone else  **Created by God as the one-of-a-kind, Designer-made, individual YOU!**

"UNIQUE"DISTINCT from everybody else  **Needing no-thing and no-body in order to feel valued!**

"WHOLE":  100% COMPLETE all by yourself  **What lies behind and what lies ahead changes by what lies within! **

         Always remember that, no matter what we've done or where we've been in this life, our dreams for a loving marriage we have carried from the time of our childhood can and will only be fulfilled by God, The Author and Proprietor of Marriage, Himself... if we will believe and trust in Him.
Your friends and servants in Christ Jesus,

     ...and the entire Team of Toward The Mark, Inc.

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To Show GOD BIG in a World that Sees Him small…  sums up the reason Keith stepped out in faith to focus on reaching the lost and strengthening believers everywhere, through Toward The Mark, Inc.  Keith and Brenda's prayer is that you will be encouraged and edified by the Secrets from God's Word shared through written and recorded accounts. The complete collection of original podcasts, music, teaching letters, books, CDs, and other resources of Toward The Mark are made possible by the prayers and financial gifts of the TTM Family of monthly supporters.  We'd like to welcome you onboard TODAY!

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  To help you further your fight to victory through the battles that confront every one of us in these turbulent times we live in, get your copy of our book, " LETTERS FROM THE FRONT." In this collection of 12 letters written from the front lines of battle fought in the spiritual, natural, and theater of the mind, Keith's Scripture messages will build your faith and help you reach God's full potential for your life.
"LETTERS FROM THE FRONT"
available now...
Send e-mail request.


We pray God uses this message, and all of our resources, to fan the flame in your heart for Christ Jesus, His wonder-full Ways, and our Father's Plan and Purpose for you in this life. We are eternally grateful for our loving Toward The Mark Family of sponsors who make this blog, and all of our resources, possible by their faithful prayer and monthly financial support!

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