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Monday, January 22

Becoming God's End Time Executives

Advancing God's Word ... At Home, In Our Schools, And On The Job! 

       Last week a dear pastor friend called and, before he even said hello, quickly asked, "Keith, what is The Lord saying to you r-i-g-h-t n-o-w?"  In a short moment, I began to say exactly what I saw in my spirit.

         "Jesus is saying that we must encourage God's beloved to encourage His beloved, being ready and willing to speak courage INto the lives of His faithful ones, to bring strength to those who have become weak, to refresh their spirits by speaking over them in prayer. We are to help repair the breaches in the hedge of protection God placed around His beloved, fortifying the hedge by 'calling those things which be not as though they were (Romans 4:17)', reminding them of their Heavenly Father's infinite love for them so their faith is built up so they can trust in Him, rest in Him, and wait on Him.  He wants us to teach His beloved, His fiance' to have His Joy, to smile and laugh in the face of trials.  We must be helping them to store God's Word in their hearts, to meet with Him personally, and often, so they can learn to hear Him by The Holy Spirit's Voice.  Jesus' greatest desire is that we each pursue Him passionately, all of us, encouraging one another to 'be ye doers of The Word (James 1:22)' executing God's Word, both written and spoken."

    After relaying what our wonder-full Lord was saying, as He had been relaying to me over the past few days, by His spirit, my friend paused and said, "Yesss!"  I added, "Brother, all of us must be 'becoming God's end-time executives', believing Believers in Jesus Christ, just as consumed with being 'doers of God's Word' as we are about being 'hearers of God's Word'.  Our job is to take God's Word and 'execute, execute, execute' constantly."

I wonder, what comes to mind when you hear the word "executive"?

This conversation takes me back to about seven years old, skateboarding in the driveway on a summer afternoon, when Dad pulled up in his company car as he was just coming home from work.  Dad worked as a regional sales representative for a Fortune 500 company that manufactures medical products and laboratory supplies and equipment for hospitals, medical clinics, colleges for medicine, military medical groups, and other institutions.  Dad got out of the car and said, "Keith, something happened at work today that I want to tell you about.  Let's go inside."

We went inside where Mom had dinner ready.  We set the table, sat down together to thank God for our food and family, and then Dad began smiling real big, almost giddy, as he said, "Well, your ol' dad here has just been awarded 'SALES EXECUTIVE OF THE YEAR' for our entire company."  My mom, brothers, and I clapped and made over him like he just won The Super Bowl single-handedly.  Not only was this prestigious award a defining moment for Dad but it would mark the beginning of my life-long venture toward becoming an "executive" in business and more, as well!  But, at that moment, my big question was, "What is an 'executive' really?"

As a result of Dad's great news, from that night on, the image for an "executive" began to form in my young mind.  I kept seeing the daily image of my Dad heading to work in the morning dressed in a nice suit and carrying his brief case.  Then, just weeks after Dad's announcement, a big-sized heavy package came in the mail.  Seeing it had our whole family excited for Dad to open it.  Dad had hit the top of his game as a top-level sales executive, and what he reached into the shipping box and pulled out proved it.  He received a beautiful, 18-inch-high trophy with a tall sharp-dressed businessman on top carrying a briefcase, one foot in front of the other as if he was frozen in mid-stride, confidently walking forward, and Dad's name and award title was printed in large bronze letters on the front.  That was 1962 and Dad's trophy still sits on his office Credenza to this day.

So, what is an "executive" really?

People who get to be called "executives" also get known for the nice, expensive suits they wear to work and the leather briefcase they carry everywhere, right?  Well, over my years of searching for understanding, thanks to my late friend and mentor Myles Munroe's teaching on finding, and defining, the root word of a subject, I looked up the root word in the dictionary to learn the true definition of the noun "executive" by its action/verb root word "execute".  The word execute, a transitive verb, is defined as, "1) To put into effect; to carry out.  2) To perform; to do: synonym: perform.  3) To create (a work of art, for example) in accordance with a prescribed design."  So, an executive is one who executes, carries out, advances an objective.  An executive is a producer who advances an agenda, through much effort, "executing" the objective of the company he/she is working for.

Eventually, The Holy Spirit taught me, and reinforced over and over in me, that an expensive suit wearer, carrying a leather briefcase, is not somebody who is qualified to be an "executive".  You may know the funny little adage we've heard Christians say over the years in The Church, "Sitting in a pew at Church on Sunday makes a person a Christian about as much as standing in a garage makes a person a car."  Seeing through God's eyes for the definition of an "executive" took me a bit by surprise.  The Holy Spirit uploaded this to me, "The title of executive is reserved for the fruit-full."  I began to see the men and women of different professions in a new light after this.

Employees, like Dad, are the serious movers and shakers, having a contagious passion for the company and products they promote and represent.  I watched Dad eager to go to work every day, excited to "execute" the company's objectives, constantly striving to profit the company and their consumers all across the eastern region of the U.S.  His passion for his job as an "executive" grew as he grew to know more about the company's products and benefits, easily able to promote and demonstrate the superior quality and benefits that await the purchasing agents that accept "his" products, over those of his competitors.  Dad always made it a point to show respect and honor for all who he worked with, inside his company's offices and in the offices of prospective buyers.  He was always thinking of how to better demonstrate the way he valued an individual person or group he met to shake hands with.  Never once did Dad look away from someone he was engaged in talking with.  He was disciplined to:  --look a person in the eye when he was talking with them;  --use the name of the person to show value for them as a person;  and --giving a firm handshake to a potential client, even if they may not buy.

In corporate life, the level of excitement and passion an executive has for their products becomes clearly evident in the way that it spills over onto clients.  Those executives with the greatest excitement and passion for their company and products can be easily recognized by the resulting deals they finish and close upon delivery, whatever the product is that they sell and represent for selling.

Dad modeled for me a passion to execute company objectives, to "brag on" his products, and treat others with respect no matter what.  I learned to be a true "executive", being squared away with a good-paying white-collar job, wearing nice suits, driving a company car, having an expense account and plush office with my name on the door, and, most of all, passionately pursuing oneness in God, through Jesus Christ, by the leading of The Holy Spirit, working w-i-t-h The Holy Spirit to gain the knowledge and wisdom for "Becoming (one of) God's End-Time Executives".

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Much like it is in the corporate world, there are many people who go to work every day dressed in expensive suits, carrying the latest in electronic devices who are not true executives. Outwardly they look the part but inwardly they are fruitless, much like the fig tree Jesus cursed. (see Matthew 21:19-22) Rather than being an asset to a company and the achieving of it's goals they are a drain on the firm. Kind of like an NFL team paying a ball carrier who rarely shows up to practices and planning meetings that rarely if ever scores a touch down. When dressed out on the practice field or game day these impostors may look the part and appear to be ready for action, but their overall stats tell a different story, they are nonproductive.

In Jesus Christ's Church there are many people who attend multiple services weekly, they dress in expensive suits, carry bibles and own the latest in electronic communication devices but rarely read their bible or pursue Jesus Christ with their whole heart. These folks are sadly not true believers in Jesus Christ or the gospel He preaches. The late prophet of God Smith Wigglesworth referred to this sect of the Church as "unbelieving believers." These people in many cases can have an impressive number of scriptures memorized and can even quote them word for word but they are not doers of what God has given us His wonder-full Holy Scriptures to achieve.

The title of executive in The Holy Trinities eyes is reserved for the doers of God's Holy Word! "But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass: For he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was. But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth [therein], he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed." James 1:22-25

The first real clue that The Holy Spirit gave to me concerning my quest of becoming one of God's executives was when He reminded me one evening while I was asking Him how I could become more fruitful for God's glory. I was suddenly reminded of how passionate my Dad was about his job, about the company he was a part of and about his obvious excitement about the products that they manufactured and were making available to the medical industry.

What The Holy Spirit reminded me of was the reason or the why for Dad's success. It was his excitement for his company and the products that they manufactured. I was reminded of how,  more Dad would spend time in his office at home reading up on his companies products and their products second to none quality and capabilities. The more time he spent with the companies engineers who designed their products the more passionate he would become about those products and how their products would benefit the medical industry as a whole, the more he could not wait to schedule meetings with hospital purchasing agents, doctors and nurses to "brag-on' or to present the products that he was representing.

The Holy Spirit revealed to me that the same principals that promoted Dad to executive status in his  business life are the same principals that, if followed, will result in our achieving executive status in our Father's eyes. Dad was so proud of the products that he had the privilege of representing. He was equally as passionate about and proud of the company he was honored to work with, so much so that, from the moment his feet hit the floor in the mornings till his head hit the pillow at night, Dad was thinking of ways that he could locate and make his products available to more medical professionals. He was always thinking of ways that he could announce to as many physicians as he possibly could of the superior quality of his products over his competitors, and most of all, how he could educate them about the benefits of their using his products. Benefits that would greatly improve their end results.

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As Christians we must all step back and examine ourselves, are we believing believers or are we unbelieving believers? Do we love Jesus Christ to the point that we are doers of His Word and not hearers only? Are we truly executives in our Father's eyes, those who are passionately pursuing and working with The Holy Trinity to advance Their dream in this earth or are we empty suits, those who are deceived into thinking that reading our bibles on occasion and attending church services one Sunday is enough?

As a ministry family and team here at Toward The Mark, our mission and vision is to lead everyone we come in contact with into the saving knowledge of our wonder-full King Jesus Christ!  As that great day of our Lord's return draws closer with each passing day, who do you know that may need encouraged by this blog message you can forward on to them this week?

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Thursday, April 30

April--Month of Honoring the Military Child

**APRIL** is a special month of HONORING THE MILITARY CHILD… being STRONG… RESILIENT… RECEPTIVE to change… ACCEPTING of others who may or may not be like them… and MISSING MANY OF THE VERY FREEDOMS for which their family member in uniform has dedicated their life to fight for and preserve.
 
W e are grateful for this dedicated time of the year when we take a closer and focused look into the eyes of some of the BRAVEST guys and girls in AMERICA – our MILITARY B.R.A.T.S. Just like the parent in the family who wears the Army, Air Force, Navy, Marine, or Coast Guard uniform, the Military Brat is impacted by the: =>frequent moves to new assignment locations;=>unpredictable changes in the home, community, family of faith, and school situation;
=>changes in friendship circles; 
=>sacrifices of the very freedoms for which the parent in uniform fights to defend; and
=>ever-unique demands the military lifestyle brings.


With the service and sacrifice of the family member in uniform, there are countless children who deserve to be honored as well for: "Growing up a Military Child (aka: Military Brat)" (VIDEO).
I’ve heard Keith say, time and time again, that transparency is a lifeline for those who are going through difficult times and suffering. One of the devil’s most effective tools for bringing division and great despair into the lives of people who suffer, both young and old alike, is convincing the sufferer that “nobody else is struggling, or has ever struggled, as I am; it’s just me.”  God’s Word says that there is NOTHING new under the sun. With that in mind, I offer this blog from my heart, hoping that others who relate to struggles like ours, will be encouraged that they are not alone, and that they are appreciated for the important part they play, as they serve in support of fellow Americans and of other peace-loving nations around the world.

     




Writing a letter to each of my military kids & grandbabies this month, I found the photos I've shared above to be just a few that stir my emotions, always bringing me to both laugh and cry.  The memories still are fresh in my mind, taking me back to the countless stories we wrote in letters, to the scrapbooks I made to be sure our many memories were saved, and to the sweet yet sad phone calls we shared that stirred our hearts while my children and I had to be apart.  I couldn’t wait to get back to hug and kiss them each time, to hold them on my lap and read stories with them, to swing them on the swings and have lunch with them at school, just to be next to them, to enjoy time with them, for as long as I possibly could.

My little boy would tell me how he would sleep with the light on, so I could see to kiss him goodnight if I came back while he was sleeping. I remember when my little girl called and said how she learned to do a cartwheel for the first time. Doing gymnastics in the yard was our thing, and I was missing it, big time. I’m glad she continued, telling me details, because I was overwhelmed being far away from her, and I couldn’t talk just them, for a few moments.

All three of us struggled to stop our tears, whenever we had to say another goodbye.  With everything we did together and everywhere we enjoyed as a loving little family, we did our best trying not to think about our next separation coming up. The crying and sad times, and our going in different directions, never ever got easier, no matter how long or short our separation would be, or how many or few miles apart.

I kept every “I luv you Mommy” letter, every drawing and every picture my kids mailed to me from afar. And I know they kept mine, especially the scrapbooks I made and sent, reminding them I am forever there, with them in my heart every time we were apart. All of those times I heard Ethan or Sierra say, “You’re the best military mommy in the world,” the truth was THEY were the best military kids in the world, and I love and appreciate them so!!!!
Thank you so much for allowing Keith and I this opportunity to share our heart with you. We pray that this blog message will, in many ways, encourage you to support and uplift our military sons and daughters, not just in the month of April, but every month of the year when the opportunity shows itself to you.

What a privilege it is for all of us to “press Toward The Mark” of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus, together as we share with one another our heart and passions in life. We would like to encourage you to comment and share this blog, and your own experiences as well, with transparency. God bless you and your family.
If you have any questions or would like to share a special military experience with us, or prayer request, please send us an e-mail or note by mail at the address shown below.
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Tuesday, March 24

I'm Married to a Broken Vessel...


The Story Behind the Story...

 
When God brought Keith and I together, and we knew that our relationship was moving in the direction of marriage and ministry together, Keith shared with me something that I can remember so clearly.  He said, "Before we go any further in our pursuit of marriage, I need to share with you that I am really, really beat up!  Playing football and doing other sports that brought collision injuries in my life from the time I was young, I'm paying dearly for it and I need to put this all out on the table.  I need to let you know that I suffer terribly from those injuries."  At that moment, I just had to smile and tell him that, no matter what, God's grace will get us through it!  By this time, and even a year before this, I knew God had answered the fervent prayer I prayed for over 10 years by bringing Keith into my life.  I had been praying and waiting for a godly man who would be my spiritual covering, who would be the spiritual leader of our family, and who loved God with his whole heart, all the time.
When Keith came along and I saw that he loves God even more than he loved me (as it should be), that's exactly what I had been waiting for!  He IS God's answer to my prayer!  The thing is, without Keith experiencing the pain and suffering he had endured for 33 years before we met, he wouldn't have experienced the purity of God, that comes by the pain, positioning him to receive it.  Interestingly, in that fact, PAIN is a GOOD thing... for b-o-t-h of us!  And my having the ability to help him in his areas of difficulty with the pain, and in days when it's hard for him to even get out of bed, is a good thing.  To be his encouragement, helping care well for his nutritional, physical, emotional, and spiritual needs every day, helps encourage me and my spirit too.  We are a great team!
This is a race were running and we must finish!  In order to finish, we must pursue God, Rewarder of those who diligently seeking Him.  There is no coincidence that we've named this ministry from the Philippians 3:13-14 passage that says, "Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."  See, this is a battlefield where we fight; it's not a wedding dress room.  We want to emphasize, and it is of the utmost importance, that you keep going!  There is nothing worth you giving up, and people all around you, counting on you, are worth your pressing on and pressing in.  We "must" be strong!
Because of certain decisions and circumstances from living a certain lifestyle, folks who we have met are out there right now struggling, trying to find the strength just to move forward another day.  If you've done some things in life that have left you effected mentally or spiritually or physically, and you're finding it hard to press on another day, you may be someone we are writing this for, specifically.  You may feel as if you've pressed in as far as you possibly can, and you have literally collapsed, feeling mentally, physically and spiritually exhausted.  We're sharing this testimony in hopes that something we're going through, and have gone through over a number of difficult years, will fan the flame in your heart to k-e-e-p going.  The Scripture tells us we must persevere to the end.  "Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, Looking unto Jesus the Author and Finisher of our faith; Who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God."  (Hebrews 12:1-2)
It was one evening about 20 years ago when a very wise pastor friend told Keith to do something that would help him in times of chronic pain and hopelessness.  He said, "You need to turn your office in to a 'Keith Room'."  Keith said that he chuckled and said how he thought it was already a room for him because it's where he spends his time praying and studying.  His pastor friend corrected him saying, "Not a 'Keith's room', but a 'Keith Room.  You need to cover the walls in your office with your 'trophies', everything representing what you have accomplished over the years.  Hang them everywhere around you!  Fill your walls up!  I tell you to do this because I have found that my own 'trophy room' has been one of my greatest weapons against the wicked spirits of hopelessness, depression, oppression, and every other kind of unclean spirit that comes to deceive you into giving up!"  Keith told me that, since then, he tells anyone who has a definite passion to work with God to fulfill God's passion, they m-u-s-t have a "trophy room" in their house, because satan works very hard to convince us that we never have done, and never will do, anything great!
In the heat of battle, when everything in you is screaming, you have that place where you and God, together, can enjoy all you have come through, together!  "But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost, Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life."  (Jude 1:20-21)
One afternoon when I was waiting for Keith to join me for a podcast recording, I started to read what was written on various things hanging on his office walls.  As I really focused on what I was seeing and reading, I realized something I never stopped long enough to really think about before.  I could clearly see that, without question, Keith has many remarkable accomplishments he has been able to pursue and achieve.  Those accomplishments documented on his walls, speak to some of the most important milestones and life-changing events that have shaped him into the man he has become today.  To help give you a visual and an idea of some of the more important details, there are framed covers of the books that he has written and published, two CD projects representing collections of original songs that he authored, recorded and published, issues of early ministry newsletters, photos of his concert performances with fellow-musicians from popular Christian groups, photos from marinas and other companies he's managed, his certificate of licensing into ministry, and more.  Everything I can physically see is the proof Keith accomplished what was required by investing his dedicated time, patience, focus, steps of faith, hard work, personal sacrifices and follow-through, and the rest of the hard "stuff" that is the deeper story you can't see behind what we do see on the wall.
I've heard people who have known Keith describe him as a likeable guy, an achiever who is down-to-earth and outgoing, and a guy who knows and loves God and The Scripture.  He is known to be a great friend, encouraging in the things of God, and, of course, is a wonderful husband and leader of our family.  On the other hand, he doesn't have an English degree and also didn't have straight A's in school as you might expect, for him to get to where he is now as President and Founder of Toward The Mark, Inc.  Some have asked how he came to be a writer of five of his own books, and to be a published author of, not only his books, but of two CDs of his original music.  When someone wants to know where Keith found the knowledge and expertise to produce all of those wonderful things, he humbly tells them, "I have friends who helped me who are a whole lot smarter than I am!"
When people come to visit our office, they walk in and see the walls covered with many of the reminders of where Keith's life and ministry has come from.  Those reminders are reflections of Keith's background, and certain ones reflect a very defining moment in Keith's life that, until now, not many people have known about.  I say it was "defining" because his life changed dramatically and unexpectedly, and, as a result, there was a big price that he had to pay, and is actually still paying for today.  What I am referring to is most often the first thing to draws people's eyes, especially for the guys visiting - it's Keith's college football helmet displayed on a shelf mounted high in the center of one of his walls.  To the right of the helmet, is the framed picture of Keith suited up in his college football uniform.  To the left of the helmet, is a plaque honoring Keith for his contributions to his college team, for winning the national championship in their college football division.  Just as with each one of the things on the walls, what is not visible with the helmet is the price that was paid for it to get there.  Though a prize, it serves more-so as a reminder to always count the cost that comes with the great sacrifice and hard work of accomplishments.
Keith's love for football began when he was just five years old, when he watched Johnny Unitas play on television.  He'll tell you how, the first time he saw Johnny with the Baltimore Colts, a light went on in his heart.  He knew from that moment that football was what he wanted to do the most.  His love for football and his passion to play the game continued to grow from that point on.  With each passing Sunday, watching more games and learning about the different teams, Keith found himself being influenced by even more players, like quarterback Bart Star of the Green Bay Packers, and quarterback Roman Gabriel of the Los Angeles Rams.  When Keith was eight years old, his dream to be able to play organized football became a reality.  He signed up for the team late, but the coach offered him a part in the program if he could come up with his own helmet, pads, jersey, pants, and cleats, since they had already handed out all the gear they had on hand.  And, coming up with his own gear is exactly what he did when his mom took him to the sporting goods section of a big department store not far from their home.  He used his lawn-mowing money to buy everything he needed from a huge sporting store he and his mom went to.
That was the very occasion when the hopes and dreams, and ability and passion that Keith had to play football, became bigger than life!  For 15 consecutive years, he lived out his dreams of playing, getting better each season, at each level.  In his final years of high school, playing and having as much fun with his football friends as he could was his real interest, not seriously considering his grades and education for the future.  He knew his possibilities for college would be limited, which made him enjoy his high school football seasons all the more, in case that was where they would end. 
The summer before Keith left to play football in college, there was a very special mentor who taught him some very important techniques that would help him reach the pinnacle of his football career.  That special mentor was Chris Hanburger, linebacker in the NFL who played his entire 14-year-career with the Washington Redskins, and was a 2011 inductee into the Pro Football Hall of Fame.  God brought Chris into his life, being the big brother Keith never had, at a critical time when his family was breaking up and his parents were divorcing.  Keith has great stories of him and Chris practicing blocking in the parking lot at the marina where he worked throughout his high school years, learning so much from Chris during that time.
One day, Keith got a letter in the mail from Coach Hank Norton who, little did he know at the time, was a nationally renowned head coach, from Ferrum College in the hills of Virginia.  Keith tells about how excited he was to learn about Coach Norton from the guy who owned the marina he worked for, Ed Thornley.  Ed had played football at Virginia Tech, but said that, if Hank Norton had been coaching at Ferrum at the time when he was playing, he would've reconsidered his decision to play at VA Tech, to play under Coach Norton.  Being a father-figure for Keith, as well as his boss at the marina, Ed volunteered himself to make Keith's car and insurance payments, and to send money while Keith was away at college, to provide for his books, class expenses, food, and other necessities.  He told Keith not to worry about anything but his classes and playing football.  At that, Keith thanked him profusely for his help in this way that lifted a big burden on his mind about financial support he didn't have otherwise.
When Chris heard that Keith had been invited to Ferrum, he said he just loved it because he knew how good the program was there, because of Coach Norton's tenure.  Keith remembers the next thing Chris said to him, knowing it would motivate Keith to give his best, not only playing with aggression, but "playing with total abandon."  Knowing that Keith was consumed with kickoff and punting teams, Chris said, "You go and do a good job for Hank Norton and, when you come back, you and I will walk into the head coach's office for the Redskins, and we'll see if we can't get you a shot at those special teams that you like so much!"  With the level of excitement Chris brought into Keith's life with that mention, casual yet timely as it was, Keith became so driven that, no matter if he was too small, not smart enough, or had any other odds against him, his heart was totally engaged!  There would be no doubt that he would give all he had in him to make it all the way to where he would be able to redeem Chris's offer.  There would be no stopping him now!
So, when Keith arrived at college, he described the first obstacles he had to overcome being what he saw, and faced, the first time he walked into the gym for the first day of team tryouts.  First, he saw that he was just one of several hundred guys who was there to fight for a position on the team.  Even more intimidating was, based on the size and strength of the guys that were there standing around him, his competition, it seemed as though he was the only guy who did NOT have the Arnold Schwarzenegger-like appearance.  I love how Keith says it in light of his size deficit, "They all looked like Arnold; then, there was me."  He also shares how, if he didn't love football as much as he did, he "would've turned around and bolted that very day, because all those guys in that place looked like they could snap (him) like a twig!"
Trying out for the team was a life-changing experience for sure.  According to basic statistics for the football players from high school that actually get selected to play on college teams, only 6.4% make it.  For Keith, though, his sacrifices and hard work in the training would be extraordinary, because he would be required to do drills where he would be pitted against guys who were bigger than his 6'2", 205 pound size, stronger and more hard-hitting by comparison, and naturally built to easily out-muscle him.  What he calls his "saving grace", to make up for the strength and size he didn't have by comparison to the other guys, was knowing and using what he had learned early on in football.  He knew how to use technique and maneuverability to knock the "bigger guys" off balance and off their game.
Besides his size, there were unique odds that Keith was unaware of, working against him.  He was an average, healthy teenager, as far as he knew, but he had always wondered why he seemed to have to work so much harder than other guys, to get into as good of physical shape as they were.  Each year, starting with pre-season football practice, nose-bleeds and coughing up blood became a regular thing for Keith, when nobody else seemed to have that happen to them.  He struggled hard to do physical conditioning that others made look effortless.  Keith told me that, the whole time he fought to stay on his feet and in the game, physically, he kept thinking that he was, apparently, just behind in getting in shape.
It was only about two years ago that Keith's dad shared something that had never come up in conversation before, and it finally explained all of those curious symptoms.  Sitting around the Shealy family table at Thanksgiving, all of a sudden, Keith's dad blurted out (holding a turkey leg in his hands), "Did you all know that, in the first year of Keith's life, he was pronounced dead three times?"  I was shocked because I have one of those father-in-law's who's pretty quiet about stuff that changes a person's life, like that.  He loves his family with all of his heart, but it's very seldom any of us get to hear about the hard battles he's fought in his life - those fought for the US Navy that he kept secret ever since his missions in the Korean War; those his dad (Keith's grandfather) fought in the skies in WW II; and those we all tried to talk about when he would just change the subject instead of share with us what we asked to know.  Dad Shealy continued, saying, "Yeah, for the first three months after his birth, Keith was kept in the hospital under close surveillance for a chronic lung disease.  The doctor said his lungs were severely under-developed and he had chronic emphysema.  It drove his mom crazy that he had to stay at the hospital, closed inside an oxygen chamber, and they wouldn't let us bring him home.  On three different occasions, the hospital staff called, and had us come and make funeral arrangements for him, telling us to say our goodbyes as he might not live but a few more hours."  Wow!  Neither Keith nor I had ever heard about all of that before.  I'm thinking at that time, what a miracle to have Keith here, now, with his life story to tell!
Now, things started all coming together at the table there, why Keith would regularly cough up blood at football practices and why he was always more short of breath than all of the other guys playing who seemed to be making it through effortlessly.  Now we realize that he lived his life and played 15 consecutive years of football by God's grace alone.  If Keith had learned all of this before now, he may not have been able to make it into the college ranks with as severe of asthmatic conditions as he didn't realize he had!
Working in Keith's favor, especially when he played in college, was having good football coaches who recognized his strengths and abilities, then "reached in and pulled stuff out of you that you didn't even know you had", as Keith puts it.  Keith likens the purpose of the head football coach and his assistants, to that of the senior pastor and his associate pastors in the local church.  Pastors are given by God as a gift to the body of Christ, for the purpose of leading individuals in his congregation into oneness with God, where they can then realize and perform what God has put them here on the earth to fulfill.  Now, once these individuals have realized what they have received from God to perform what they've been wired to do, it is the pastor's job to look into those individuals' lives, and help draw out and develop what God wired in them.  Much the same, good football coaches, like Coach Norton, are there to help players discover and achieve their full God-given potential on the field and in the game of football.
When it comes to the national championship season of Keith's freshman year of college, I asked him to tell me about that monumental time in his life.  So you can hear his heart, I'll quote for you just what Keith answered. ...
"Throughout the final game and, at the end, winning with a score of 83 to 3, it was total elation!  Undefeated and having had a fabulous season, we knew we were not going to get thumped in the back of the head if we messed up or had a little too much fun.  We were big dogs and it was just a fun day that I'll never forget!  I still dream about it often.  Near the end of the year, shortly before the final game, I had what I thought was a pulled muscle in my lower back.  I can remember it was just excruciating.  It got really bad, having to constantly sit in the ice.  My back would get swollen, so the trainer would send me to this ice barrel where I would sit in there and he would shovel ice over it.  The swelling would go down, then, the next day, by the end of practice, it would be swollen again.  So, I had done this several times up to and through the final game, but we all were having a blast!  When I realized I better go get my back looked at, they took x-rays and did an MRI, and found out that I had been playing with a back that was actually broken in three places.  When I saw the x-rays, and when the doc came in and said, 'Keith, I hate to be the one to tell you, but your football career is over,' I was crushed!  Ever since I was eight, my greatest dream was of playing in the NFL.  Chris Hanburger's dream offer, to introduce me to the coach of the Redskins, was waiting to help me have a go at playing on the special teams!  Now, that dream is just shattered in a moment!  What I loved doing more than anything else was o-v-e-r in an instant!  I left the hospital as quickly as I could, and drove back to the football field.  I limped my way into the empty stadium and toward the 50-yard line, feeling more sick with each step.  As the reality that it's over hit me, waves of emotion overwhelmed me until I just collapsed!  I was smelling the grass, the chalk, and all of the things that I'd loved to smell ever since I was a little boy.  That was home to me.  Now, all of it is ripped away from me!  I remember how numb I felt.  All I could do was sit in the middle of the field, and cry.  The next thing I did was meet with Coach Henley, one of the assistant coaches, who listened to me dump my guts about my pain, heartbreak, and frustrating confusion about what just happened.  The x-rays and doctors made it very clear saying, 'All it would take is one more hit, and there's a very good chance that you would never walk again.'  Coach Henley tried to convince me to stay at school and participate in the football program in some other capacity.  I thanked him, but told him I didn't feel that I could do that, and I needed to leave college if I couldn't play anymore.  Staying would be torture for me.  I said goodbye and left to go to my dorm room and pack up my car to leave school."
With the excruciating pain in his back, and emotionally depressed and broken, Keith had to have one of his teammates help him pack up all of his things and load up his car.  Not really knowing what he was going to do next, or even what the next day held in store for him, he got into his car and headed back to the town he lived in during high school.  Keith's family had broken up and neither of his parents lived in town any longer.  So, he knew that going back there meant he was going out on a limb in hoping to find a place to stay and a way to support himself as he fought to pull his life back together.  The good thing was having a bunch of buddies who were still in town.  One of his closest buddies from the football team in high school, named John, was the first person Keith went to see when he got to town.  During his visit with John and his family, like finding an oasis in the desert, John's mom and dad told Keith not to worry about finding a place to stay because he was welcome to stay with them for as long as it takes for him to get back on his feet.
Keith had been away at college for about six weeks when, after not having received any of the money his boss promised, he decided he'd better call and find out what was happening.  He left messages for Ed everywhere he knew that people knew him, but nobody could find him.  When Keith caught up with the service manager at the marina where Keith had been working for Ed every summer throughout his high school years, that's when he was told that Ed had filed for bankruptcy just weeks after Keith left for college.  About a month later, Keith started receiving letters from the bank about his car soon to be repossessed.  It wasn't long after that when the insurance company began sending letters to Keith about lapsed payments for his coverage.  An already bad income situation was rapidly getting worse for Keith with book and class fees gradually trickling in as "delinquent" as well.
Keith's ambitions and dreams became very complicated, but redirected him in a completely new direction in pursuit of different ambitions than he ever thought he'd pursue.  However, that's not where the past events and experiences of football ended for Keith, and this is what leads me to the reason we're writing this particular message for the blog, and why we consider this testimony to be one of our most important messages, a top priority for a time such as this.  Until now, there were only a few people who have known about just what it takes for Keith to manage each day, living with a broken back, brain damage from multiple documented concussions, and other injuries he carries with him, and always will, from the 15 years of playing the sport he loved.
From the time Keith was very young, until age 19, there were multiple high-impact injuries and some serious collisions that Keith was part of, as he raced motor cross and hydroplanes (race boats) and performed in various types of waterskiing and, of course, football seasons - all of which beat his body up pretty bad.  So, by the time his career in football ended in college, along with the 18 broken bones and five recorded concussions he had endured, he would now live the rest of his life with arthritis and calcium build-up in his back, neck, and everywhere his body sustained collision injuries.  Along with all of that, he needs medicine to control altered glandular secretions in his brain, where there's scar tissue at each point where there had been massive bleeding from the concussions.
Keith has to take certain daily medication so he can function.  I'm here to tell you that only God knows what his life would be like now, if he had not had wonderful neurologists and neurosurgeons who have been able to work on his bones and the trauma around his bones.  On the other hand, it's tough knowing that Keith suffers, in part, from numerous things that happened that were all his fault.  He couldn't resist taking part in high-action, high-impact activities that he was hopelessly drawn to all his life, although his dad would constantly warn him against taking chances they imposed.
Soon after the concussions and the broken back, Keith came to find out that he had been walking around with fractured vertebrae in his neck as well.  It would be 26 years of never-ending pain and suffering, and countless meetings with neurosurgeons, that he would be told over and over that the procedure that he needed had not been developed to the point of it being worth taking the gamble that it might not work for him or that it might cause even greater suffering or further damage.  Over 10 times, things had gotten so bad for Keith that he submitted to clinical studies, praying he would be selected for the study, prepared to be treated as a guinea pig.  Each time he was told, yet again, that the real solution for him was a surgery that uses new technology and intricate hardware that was still not available though it was currently in the research stages.
As his only resort, just about 14 years ago, Keith finally had a different surgery that was hoped to give him a possible 20% improvement in his condition.  Specialists put rods and screws in his lower back to provide him significant relief and to give some of his life back.  However, with getting bone grafts and hardware implanted for that type of surgery, there would come a whole myriad of problems.  His arthritis pain would increase, calcium deposits build up around the swelling in his neck and become bone spurs that pinch nerves around them, sending shooting pain down into the arms and hands, and legs and feet.  This is just a small part of what I watch Keith deal with every day.  Sometimes, with his excruciating pain, he struggles with depression and a total lack of wanting to push forward another day that comes.  We come together and get in the Scripture, and God shows us how to cross the line into renewed light.
For anyone who needs medication to keep you in the race, don't you dare let Satan condemn you and riddle you with guilt, or with his own big mouth for your having to take medications like that!  Hear us when we say this!  People can interpret many different Scripture passages many ways, but, to paraphrase part of the verse (Revelation 22:2), think about how God put healing in the leaves of the trees for the nations.  Take advantage of modern technology.  It's not of the devil, but it is God's gift to His people.
God brilliantly and mathematically formulates things that can help with the depression and the anxiety that often comes with everyday life for pain sufferers.  So we encourage you, as Keith also has to take medications to achieve regular every-day tasks, don't let Satan condemn you even one more day!  Use what you need to, under the care of a qualified physician, get up, and keep going!
Being someone who had pretty much packed all of his passion and plans into one bucket, investing most everything he had into football, Keith makes it a point to tell others who do that same thing to really think it through.  Because of what happened to him, he encourages others to think wisely and focus on working at something aside from their first passion.  If your life's dream is shattered, you'll have done yourself a favor by having another interest that you've developed along the way; one that you know you can enjoy and do well as your primary focus.
What would become the new primary focus for Keith was what he had passion for doing as a secondary interest, a distant second to his life passion for football.  He loved music in high school and had developed a natural talent as a drummer.  He had experience playing in a few local rock bands, entertaining audiences at high school dances, parties, and such.  Once he got himself refocused after college, he began to build on his musical abilities.  From that point on, the music he had always played as a pass-time before, was taking off to ultimately turn into a music career for Keith.  Little did he know, God would come to use his music as the platform for the growing ministry of Toward The Mark, Inc. established for over 33 years now.
We want to encourage you today that, no matter what it is you're struggling with, call out on the Holy Spirit, get into the Scriptures, and study.  Watch what the Holy Spirit begins to minister to you, and trust in the oil and the wine of healing He brings.  Press forward with Him when you have difficulties and difficult things happen, and watch Him change the direction of your life.
There's one last thing we would like to leave with you, to encourage you.  My groom struggles every day, suffers every day, and I believe many of you who read this do also.  Whenever you get an attack and in whatever it is you may be struggling with, we encourage you go to God first and always.  Don't be so quick to pick up the phone, but be quick to get into the Scripture.  Ask the Person of the Holy Spirit to come in and start to reveal to you the truth of your situation, and to lead you through it.  As you read the Scriptures, every time you'll come out better off than when you went in.  I had to learn that lesson the hard way because, so often, when I would be hurt and suffering trauma of broken family relationships, especially those affecting my children so badly, I would get on the phone and talk to people, just hoping that they would have something they would say that would give me hope to make it to the next day.  It took me quite a while to realize that, what I was needing in encouragement through those situations was prophetic change.  That prophetic change was never going to be found over the phone.  It was going to be found in the Scriptures, sitting at the feet of the Person of the Holy Spirit.  Jesus said, "Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me, the works that I do shall he do also; and greater works than these shall he do; because I go unto my Father."  (John 14:12) The Spirit brings life!  Without the wonderful, joyful, fun-loving, peaceful, ... Person of the Holy Spirit, we have no chance in life!  But, because God has given us His Holy Spirit, we have a chance and, even greater, an advantage over people who do not know, love, and call on the Person of the Holy Spirit.
God is the Redeemer.  When we have the rug pulled out from under us, and our dreams are shattered, if we have our identity wrapped up in something apart from God, He's there waiting for us to offer up ourselves and all that we have.  The key ingredient He uses to bring us around, and bless us at the end, is the pain.  Please don't be too quick to run from the pain.  Let it do its perfect work.  Stand in the fire and let the flames burn away your old flesh nature, and be transformed into pure gold, refined by the fire.  "And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.  Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me."  (2 Corinthians 12:9)  Remember, it's the old flesh nature that is keeping us from working with God to fulfill His dream in the earth.
So, what do you have hanging on your walls?  What memories do they spark?  What do they mean to you, and to those who see them?  If it's your life accomplishments you see, how much do you remember about how you came by them?  Did they come easy?  Do you remember the hard work and determination, and the dreams you had that came before them?  These are the questions that we leave with you to write about for yourself.  With regard to what God had planned and purposed for all of us... "But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved." (Matthew 24:13)
All of us who are God's Children need to remember that satan has no authority over our lives.  We must be ready at all times for battle.  We may not win every battle, but in the end we win the war!
We pray that this message encourages you to share your Revelation 12:11 testimony of faith with others, as we have stepped out in faith to share this one of ours, with you.  THANK YOU for connecting with us today!  Also, we would always appreciate you downloading copies of this blog to share with others, and keeping a copy of it handy for your own reading and encouragement, time and time again!


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In Christ Jesus,

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