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Monday, February 22

The Abomination Of Misrepresentation

You don't need a gun or a knife to commit murder!

What passes for Christianity today bears little to no resemblance to the teachings of The Lord Jesus Christ. Much like paint that is diluted to the point that it becomes useless, God and His Word are being diluted to the point that The Gospel of Jesus Christ is misrepresented as useless in the eyes of the masses of uneducated people. We ignore this situation to our own destruction!

  Have you ever been falsely accused? Have you ever been blamed for saying something that you never said or for doing something that you never did? Have you ever had something that you said or did so distorted that it literally had nothing in common with what you originally said or did? If so, then you can surely empathize with those who have experienced the terrible feelings that come with being falsely represented in the eyes of others.

            When I played football in college, after the final game of our season in which we won the National Championship, someone on my own college football team falsely accused me of stealing my home jersey. It was the most horrible feeling I had ever had in my life. Why? Even though I wore the jersey to play the game, it was not mine to keep. Like the helmets and shoulder pads we were issued, the jersey was the property of the college's Athletic Department. Therefore the theft of the jersey was an offense committed against the school. Far worse than that, however, was the deliberate attempt to kill, steal, and destroy the good reputation that I had worked so hard for years to achieve.

            Curiously enough, this took place just after my precious grandmother sent me my first Bible and shared with me a dream she had of my preaching God's Word to large crowds. I later realized that this incident was perhaps my first substantial spiritual attack; an unclean spirit of false accusation had come to steal the Word of God that my grandmother had spoken over my life. Let me explain to you how it happened.

            On the day after our final game of the year, everyone on the team reported to the training facility on campus to clean out our lockers and turn in all of our gear. Three days later, much to my surprise, I was called into the coach's office and told that a member of the team had reported seeing me steal my home jersey. I felt as if someone had kicked me right in the stomach. I explained to the coaching staff that I had turned in my jersey, along with the rest of my equipment, to the team trainers. After about an hour the coaching staff let me go. I will never forget the heaviness and frustration that consumed me for weeks afterward! I knew I was innocent, but I could see that the coaching staff was not so convinced, or at least I felt that way. All I could think of was how everything that I had done to win the respect of my coaches had all been destroyed with one lie.

            I remember going around to certain members of the team asking them if they had heard of anyone finding the jersey. After a few days I was approached by our defensive team captain, who informed me that he had heard who had my jersey, and that the thief had taken it because he was angry at me about something. The plot thickens!

          During that school year I had spent some time with a young lady, and I soon learned that one of the team trainers had a crush on her. That was where the problem became difficult! Why? The team trainers were off limits to the players; much like diplomats from foreign countries, they had complete immunity from us. We could not touch them physically or accuse them before anyone; to do so meant immediate dismissal from the team. As my mom would have said, "He had me over a barrel and he knew it!"

            I would like to tell you that the matter was resolved, but it never was. The fellow that had stolen the jersey never came forward, and there was no way that I was going to file a complaint- which I later discovered was exactly what he wanted me to do. I simply had to wash my hands of it and go my own way, no matter how much I was tempted to do otherwise. Do you see how much damage one false accusation can cause? In my case, it almost cost me both my hard-earned reputation as a football player and my place on the team I had loved and worked so tremendously hard to be a part of.

            However, you might enjoy knowing that about five years later, a band that I was touring with performed about fifty miles from my old school. One morning while we were in town I drove out to the campus just to walk around the stadium and visit the awards room. Before I left I thought that, by some long shot, head coach Norton might be home, and I drove up to his house and knocked on the door. Much to my surprise, Coach Norton answered. When he saw me, he smiled and invited me in, and we must have talked for an hour about all of the things that happened the year we won our division's national college championship. It was a season that none of us will ever forget! Just before I got up to leave, I asked, "Coach, you do know that I did not take my jersey, don't you?" He replied, "Shealy, I knew your heart, Son- I knew you could have never taken anything. Besides, you earned something that no amount of money in the world could have bought. You walked away from here a champion; you walked away with a ring!"

            As I stood up and made my way to the door, Coach Norton reached up, gave me a big hug, and said, "You know you still have a few years of eligibility left?!" At that, I smiled real big, hugged his tree stump of a neck again, got back in my car, and drove off. The ride back that day was perhaps the lightest that I had felt in years. I had finally been released from the weighty chains of having been misrepresented and falsely accused in the eyes of the one person that I had loved and respected the most at that time in my life.

            Why do we feel so badly when we have been falsely accused or misrepresented? The answer is to be found in this verse from Proverbs, "A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favor rather than silver and gold." (Proverbs 22:1) A good name, a good reputation are worth more than great riches! Of all the things a person can possess, one of the most precious is a good name and reputation.

            Now, we are told that Satan comes to kill, steal, and destroy, and the good reputation is one of his favorite targets. When it comes to attacking a person's good name, the tongues of people are quite useful to him. "And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defiles the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell. For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind: But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison." (James 3:6-8)

            Consider this example from the life of the prophet Jeremiah. His words of warning to God's people stirred them up, but not to repentance. Instead, they attacked the prophet for bringing God's Word to them. "Then said they, Come, and let us devise devices against Jeremiah. Come, and let us smite him with the tongue." (Jeremiah 18:18) Upon hearing this, Jeremiah made this supplication to the Lord.

            "Give heed to me, O LORD, and hearken to the voice of them that contend with me. Shall evil be recompensed for good? for they have dug a pit for my soul." (Jeremiah 18:19-20) What was the evil these people had devised against God's prophet? What was the pit they dug for his soul? Words! They said, "let us smite him with the tongue." They called him a liar! "Let us not give heed to any of his words." (Jeremiah 18:18) The witness of the people against the prophet was false. They were engaging in slander. Now, you may still be wondering why this is a big deal. Do you remember that bearing false witness against a person is forbidden in the Ten Commandments? "Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor." (Exodus 20:16)

            In addition to being one of "The Big Ten", bearing false witness is one of the Seven Abominations. "These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him: A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, A heart that devises wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief, A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren." Proverbs 6:16-19

            God hates all sin, but these seven are especially abominable to Him: a proud look, a lying tongue, murder of the innocent, a heart that imagines wickedness, feet that quickly get into mischief, a false witness, and those who sow discord within families (including God's family). Observe how prominent the tongue is in the Seven Abominations. Notice also that God looks at a lying tongue the same way He does murder.

            Slander, libel, and gossip (even in the disguise of "prayer requests") are tantamount to murder. This is why it is also called character assassination, because the unjust destruction of a person's good name is akin to murder.

            Think about it for a moment: false accusation strips its victims of all credibility. In many cases, it destroys a person's ability to benefit society altogether, fulfilling satan's agenda of hindering the fulfillment of God's will for every individual. Lies and misrepresentation brand the accused as unclean, whether they are guilty of the offense or not, making it all but impossible for anyone to receive the words of the accused as credible. Once the accusation has been made, taking it back is all but impossible, much like trying to return an omelet back to eggs. How many times have journalists of liberal-leaning television news stations repeated baseless, empty charges against someone who had a stellar, lifelong reputation in service to our country? Or, what about the heartbreaking stories of innocent people who sat in prisons for years because they had been falsely accused of crimes they did not commit? Misrepresentation has caused many lives to be destroyed; that's a fact!

            False accusations are satan's devices, and people who engage in such practices are his accomplices. Satan especially delights in using false accusation and deception, in an attempt to destroy God and His people in the eyes of those who do not know God. It is incredible that some of his greatest allies in that endeavor are people who sit in pews or stand in pulpits on Sunday mornings. The following words from the book of Revelation describe what has happened.

            "And unto the angel of the church of the Laodiceans write; These things saith the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the beginning of the creation of God; I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spew thee out of my mouth. Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with goods, and have need of nothing; and knowest not that thou art wretched, and miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked." (Revelation 3:14-17)

            What had the church of Laodicea done? They claimed to represent God's ways when they did not. They were bearing false witness against God. The Lord, describing Himself as "the faithful and true witness," said that that made Him want to vomit! The words He used, "spew thee out of my mouth", signify Him throwing up. The Lord would rather that they had been cold - that is, wicked with no pretense of righteousness - or hot - that is, truly righteous. But the church of Laodicea was lukewarm, while claiming to be hot. They were therefore assassinating the character of the Lord Jesus Christ. It is no wonder, then, that the Lord said He would vomit them out of His mouth!

            That is the condition of the church in America today. The church has given the enemies of the Lord great occasion to mock God and to speak evil of the way of Truth. This includes all of the well-meaning, sincere people who go about doing damage to the cause of Christ through being busy working for God rather than working with God, all the while believing they are serving their Creator. This is no isolated problem, either. Many ill-prepared church folks distort what God wants to do in the lives of mankind.

            Those who claim to be Christian, but do not walk according to their new nature in Christ, are lying about God and effectively claiming that God is a liar, for not only are they misrepresenting Him, they are not trusting Him. Furthermore, those who bear false witness against God and do not trust Him are walking in hatred of Him. ""A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth worketh ruin." (Proverbs 26:28)

            The lukewarm Christian flatters God; they know all the right words to say, but they do not really believe it. As Jesus said, "This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; but their heart is far from me. But in vain they do worship me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men." (Matthew 15:8-9)

            Unless we are walking in the Truth, all of our works, including worship, are worthless. For instance, how much can be taught by a pastor who does not know God and His Word? Not much! Why doesn't he know much? He was taught by others that did not know much, who in turn were taught by others that did not know much either, and the cycle goes on. "And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch." (Matthew 15:14) [By the way, do you know what they call a medical student that graduates at the bottom their class? Doctor! Selah.]

            How could such a decline take place in the church? It happens much like this. When I was in the fourth grade, our teacher had the entire class stand shoulder to shoulder around the classroom, facing inward toward the center of what had become a large circle. She then asked us to join hands. Once we had done so, she stepped in as part of the circle, took the hands of the students to the right and left of her, and asked us to be very still. She then said that she was going to show us how someone can say something that can be taken totally out of context. She told us that she was going to whisper something in the ear of the student that was holding her left hand, and that she wanted them to repeat exactly what they had been told to the person next to them, and so on, until the last person repeated what they had heard back to the teacher. Once the message had traveled around the entire circle, and had come back to the teacher, she asked us all to return to our desks. Once we were seated, our teacher went to the chalk board and wrote what her original message had been, and also what the message the last student was that had been relayed to her. The difference, as we compared the two messages, was astonishing! The two had nothing in common.

            Similarly, when people's opinions of God's Word are taught and repeated in Christian circles instead of, as the Scriptures say, as "the very words that proceeded from the mouth of God", great misrepresentation of our heavenly Father will be the result. Hence, we see the lukewarm condition that most of the church body finds itself in today. Many years ago, Thomas Jefferson said, "Had the doctrines of Jesus been preached always as pure as they came from His lips, the whole civilized world would now have been Christians."

            Billy Graham, another great American, once told a story that also makes this point. On one occasion, after Billy had finished preaching a fiery message, a rather irritated older man walked up to him and said harshly, "Mr. Graham, I am very disappointed in you, Sir!" Billy replied, "Why?" The man said, "Are you aware that your message tonight has set the church back fifty years?" At that, Billy replied, "I'm terribly disappointed. I hoped to see it set back two thousand."

            You see, what both Thomas Jefferson and Billy Graham were describing are perfect examples of the abomination of misrepresenting God. Both men could see that what passes for Christianity bears little to no resemblance to the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Much like diluting paint to the point that it has become useless, both God and His Word are so misrepresented by so many that the Gospel is discredited in the eyes of masses of uneducated people. We ignore this situation to our own destruction, because the Scripture contains the following warning.

            "There shall be false teachers among you, who privily shall bring in damnable heresies, even denying the Lord that bought them, and bring upon themselves swift destruction. And many shall follow their pernicious ways; by reason of whom the way of truth shall be evil spoken of." (2 Peter 2:1-2)

            So, what do we, as individual Christians, do to not misrepresent God in today's society? I once heard a man of God say, "The best thing that we can do for the poor is to not be one of them." as the Scripture says, "Come out from among them and be ye separate, saith the Lord." (2 Corinthians 6:17) The Scripture also says, "Wherefore he saith, Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, Redeeming the time, because the days are evil." (Ephesians 5:14-16)

            In the Scripture verse from 2 Timothy 2:19, "Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity", the phrase "depart from iniquity" mean stop sinning! This includes sinning through ignorance. The word "depart" is used in that phrase to also mean we leave sin behind. We are not to linger in it, or be slack. We must not hide behind the false righteousness of saying, "Well, I'm not as bad as others."

            Consider the fly in the ointment, as in Ecclesiastes 10:1, "Dead flies cause the ointment of the apothecary to send forth a stinking savor: so doth a little folly him that is in reputation for wisdom and honor." What does this verse mean? Well, today we use the word "pharmacist" instead of "apothecary." If we go to the pharmacist to fill a prescription and take it home only to open the package and find a dead fly floating in the bottle, would we still take the medicine? No! The dead fly ruins the entire contents of the bottle. Similarly, "the fly in the ointment" of our testimony represents that one sin -- it could be a habit or a single act -- that will cause us to appear as false witnesses for Christ. In other words, that one sin that we have committed will be what satan uses to hold up in front of others, to try to discredit us, and all of the good work we have been known to have done in the past.

            To illustrate how a little folly does damage to him that is in reputation for wisdom and honor, imagine taking a gallon of pristine, fresh, mountain spring water and putting one single drop of raw sewage into it. What will you end up with? A gallon of sewage. Therefore, the best advice is to, "Abstain from all appearance of evil." (1 Thessalonians 5:22)

            We who name the name of Christ are His ambassadors, and we must be ever mindful of the reality that we carry His reputation with us wherever we go. Spiritual slothfulness in our walk with God will be a stain that cannot be hidden, and we will be perceived as false witnesses for our Lord and Savior. This is the abomination of misrepresentation!

            The answer is to awake from our spiritual sleep, put off the old man, and put on the new man in Christ, created unto good works by God the Father. This means that we must die to our old flesh nature, with all of its selfish cravings. Only then can we truly understand that a false witness, toward God or anyone else, is like a murderer and we should never so much as mention a false word against anyone among us.

            God desires that each of us abide in Him, that we love Him with all of our hearts, and love our neighbors as ourselves. All of this, of course, is humanly impossible! But with God all things are possible. If we will but humble ourselves under the mighty and sovereign Word of God, then He will lift us up.

            It's a fact... as we walk with God, we will become more like Christ Jesus, and the faithful witnesses of God. And our lives will become living proof of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the Gospel that Jesus Christ preached.

            It is our prayer that, as the LORD looks on your life, He will find you... "rightly accused of rightly representing Him!"

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Saturday, April 30

THE LOVE OF GOD

THE LOVE OF GOD --
KNOW God, KNOW Love; NO God, NO Love!

"People who walk in integrity always leave legacies that live on long after they're gone!  'The just man walketh in his integrity: his children are blessed after him.' (Proverbs 20:7)"

This chapter, "The Love of God", is from our book, "The Crisis of Eroding Integrity" which is dedicated to those who: moment by moment, day by day, and year after year fight all manner of opposition to hold high the standard of Godly integrity in their lives; to those who are passionate about truth; and to those who have given up houses, lands, relationships, jobs, and their very lives to diligently pursue both God and His will.
THE CRISIS OF ERODING INTEGRITY  by Keith Shealy and Toward The Mark Inc. is a 12-chapter message:
What Is Integrity?
The Power Of The Tongue
Feed My Sheep!
You'll Know A Tree By Its Fruit
The Wrong Anointing
The Deceivers
Smiting The Shepherds
Perilous Times
Integrity Is A Gift and Result!
The Word of God
The Love of God;
Conclusion

"Keith talks about 'The Church' or 'The Body of Followers of Christ' in his introduction of his book saying, 'When there is a breakdown in the integrity of God’s design for the most important of institutions, it is, in fact, headed for, at best, a lukewarm and lifeless future....' I wish I could testify differently but, in a few communities I joined in my military assignment locations, with many military church-goers, I encountered this 'breakdown' in the 'love' and 'integrity' of brothers and sisters in the family of faith, and it sucked the life out of the entire family until issues were confronted, bonds became stronger, and hearts were healed."
As we consider man's definition of "love" and God's definition, we're sure you would agree that there is a significant difference between the two. Do you see the two views being "universes" apart? Now, if we compare the meaning of the words "love" and "integrity", what do they have in common with each other? How about in comparing how people in Jesus' day demonstrated "love" and "integrity", what do we see is different, or similar, to how people demonstrate "love" and "integrity" in today's society?
Having the kind of close relationship with God that enables us to hear His voice includes being obedient to His Word. “But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. ” (James 1:22) Remember, we are no longer our own, but are servants of the most high God. “But Jesus called them unto him, and said, Ye know that the princes of the Gentiles exercise dominion over them, and they that are great exercise authority upon them. But it shall not be so among you: but whosoever will be great among you, let him be your minister; And whosoever will be chief among you, let him be your servant: Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.” (Matthew 20:25-28) "And he sat down, and called the twelve, and saith unto them, If any man desire to be first, the same shall be last of all, and servant of all.” (Mark 9:35)
I was recently at lunch with a missionary friend of mine, and we were talking about the success the Japanese people have had in the global market place. Having managed several companies myself, I shared with him something I read several years before, something that I believe is the principle reason for the success of Japanese industry, especially in their automotive production. When I was studying various management techniques for new ways to help increase production in one of the companies I was managing, what I ran across really captured my attention. The Japanese take a completely different approach to leadership than we do in the United States, particularly in personnel management. Supervisors are trained and assigned to meet every need of each of the employees under their leadership.
Unlike corporate customs in America, where employees in the workforce are subservient to their supervisors who often disregard individual needs, each production-line employee in the Japanese workforce is ‘served’ by the bosses under whom they serve. No matter what the laborers and their families need - food, shelter, etc. - management makes it a priority to make it happen. Secondly, adding to the booming success, employees also get paid bonuses if they come up with innovative and useful ideas for improving products and efficiency. No wonder Japanese products lead in quality and sales, world-wide! The management not only serves their people, but they reward them as well. The Japanese have grasped the Biblical truth of "serving and caring for others" that has revolutionized, not only, their production capabilities but their entire gross national product as well. "But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant. And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted.” (Matthew 23:11-12)
The basis for all that we do, as servants of The Most High God, is supposed to be love! It does not matter what your vocation is, or how prosperous you have become in the eyes of the world; if you do not have a genuine love for people, nothing that you do will be pleasing to God. Paul addressed this very thing in his letter to the church in Corinth saying, “Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal. And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing. Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away. For we know in part, and we prophesy in part. But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away. When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known. And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity. ” (1 Corinthians 13:1-13)
“Charity” is defined in Webster’s as, “1) love for one’s fellow man 2) leniency in judging others 3) generosity toward the needy.” Jesus, in the book of John, describes the one identifying trait that determines whether or not someone is truly His student or disciple. He said, “A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.” (John 13:34-35)
Just think of what it would be like if everyone saw everything and everybody through the loving eyes of God. To say the least, this world would be a completely different place altogether! We would no longer see different races of people for anything other than the beauty that God intended them to be. We would never hold grudges against anyone! We would be quick to forgive, and would always have the best interest of everyone in both mind and heart, and, all the while, without having selfish ulterior motives anywhere along the way. Though contrary to the life that most people live, that is exactly what God expects of all of us! But, before we are going to be able to love one another in the same way that Jesus loves us, it is imperative that we first be able to see our own selves through the eyes of God!
God IS "Love”. "Love" is actually what He is made of. And "Love" is from what He has made us - IN Him. Because He gave Himself to us, Love IS what made us what we ARE. The sooner we realize this, the sooner we can become able to see ourselves the way He does. Hence, the sooner we are able to see ourselves as He sees us and Loves us, the sooner we can get about His Business of Loving others in the same way in which He Loves us. “Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God. He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is Love.” (1 John 4:7-8) In other words, we can say that to "know" God is to "know" Love; If we have "NO" God we have "NO" Love! In the words of Christ Jesus, “As the Father hath Loved me, so have I Loved you: continue ye in My Love. If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in My Love; even as I have kept My Father’s commandments, and abide in His Love. These things have I spoken unto you, that My Joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full. This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have Loved you. Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. Ye are My friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.” (John 15:9-14)
Notice that Jesus has linked the way we love God with the way we live in obedience to The Word of God. So, with regard to Jesus Christ's demonstration of absolute Love for God, and of absolute Obedience to God, is there a link between Christ Jesus and the meaning of "integrity"? “Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law. For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness, Thou shalt not covet; and if there be any other commandment, it is briefly comprehended in this saying, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law. And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed. The night is far spent, the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armour of light. Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying. But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfill the lusts thereof.” (Romans 13:8-14)
"Integrity" is so much more than simply saying what you mean and meaning what you say. Webster’s Dictionary defines it as, “The entire, unimpaired state of anything, particularly of mind; moral soundness or purity; incorruptness; uprightness; honesty. Integrity comprehends the whole moral character, but has a special reference to uprightness in mutual dealings, transfers of property, and agencies for others.” As good as this definition may be, it still falls short of the way God defines it. "Integrity" in God’s eyes is, precisely, “the very Character, and Nature, of the Lord Jesus Christ” Who died for us on the Cross of Calvary to pay the penalty for our sins, and to provide the way for us to live godly lives. “For He hath made Him to be sin for us, Who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in Him.” (2 Corinthians 5:21)
With regard to the deeds we do, some might say, "Well, I make sure I include regular church attendance in my life, and honesty in my business dealings and my personal and family matters." In Matthew 12:35, it talks about Integrity as a matter of the heart saying, “A good man out of the good treasure of the heart bringeth forth good things.” How would you explain a person who models what it means to walk out a life of integrity?
People who walk in love and integrity leave legacies that live on in those who follow in their footsteps and continue on in their example even long after they are gone. “The just man walketh in his integrity: his children are blessed after him.” (Proverbs 20:7)
Since 1978, God has blessed me, in my life as a whole, with a senior Pastor who meets the Biblical standard of a true shepherd. Our relationship has been a wonderfully anointed one, and the quality time I have spent under his Christian leadership, and that of his wonderful "Proverbs 31" wife, over the past 35+ years has been a great privilege to me. Those two folks are a godly couple of faith who have modeled for me, and for many others, just what it means to walk out a life of integrity through the various situations that come up in their life. They are passionate about truth. They love others unconditionally. They are selfless, and they have “in deed” laid down their lives for the purpose of seeing God’s perfect will and plan fulfilled in all that they do.  When they tell you they are going to do something, you can take it to the bank!  Folks like them are truly priceless gifts our wonderful, loving God has given to us, and they are rightfully due the utmost honor and respect!  “And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ.” (Ephesians 4:11-12)

The Scripture also reveals that this kind of person is quite rare, “Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find?” (Proverbs 20:6) The apostle Paul even wrote, “For I have no man like-minded, who will naturally care for your state. For all seek their own, not the things which are Jesus Christ’s.” (Philippians 2:20-21)
Of course, we can see the fruit in the lives of those who reflect God-like character. But then, on the other hand, what we CAN'T see in people, is how they behave when others aren't looking, or aren't around. How many times have we heard stories in the local news about leaders who appear honorable when others are watching, but have then been found demonstrating something else "behind the scenes" or where they're NOT clearly seen by people?
Whether the truth comes out about a Pastor who has robbed the church (in more ways than one), about a “Christian” businessman who manipulates or cheats his or her clients and/or employees, or about any other thing that is grievous, people hear these stories and wag their fingers at the church, saying, “Christians are all just a bunch of hypocrites.” This is so often the reason why people refuse to believe the message of the Gospel, not realizing that the name of Jesus Christ is being slandered by people who are falsely associated with the Body of Christ whose members rightly walk in love and integrity. Having, at best, very little regard for truth, these people have left a trail of broken promises behind them rather than wonderfully life-giving examples of Christ-likeness. Those people are "imposters" and are the examples of what Jesus says we are NOT to be and are NOT to do. Ironically, many of these same people actually think they are serving God.
You may be saying something to the effect that, "Whether we are in leadership or not, we must become serious about better protecting the hearts of anyone God places in our lives." Clearly, one way we do this is simply by using our words to reflect our love for God and others by keeping our word. To do otherwise is lying. Webster’s Dictionary defines “lying” as, “To make a statement one knows is false; to bring, put, accomplish, etc. by lying—a false statement made with the intent to deceive.” When a person makes a statement that they "INTEND" to make true, is that considered different from intentionally telling someone you are going to do something, and then not doing it? Good intentions will never make up for failure to follow through.
We noticed that the writer of Ecclesiastes actually talks about a person who breaks their word to God as being "a fool". In chapter 5, verses 4-5, he says, “When thou vows a vow (makes a promise) to God, defer not to pay it (don't put off your responsibility); for he has no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed. Better is it that thou should not vow, than that thou should vow and not pay.” (Ecclesiastes 5:4-5) Jesus most certainly wouldn’t!
Jesus, Himself, gives us the sternest warning in all of the scriptures, saying, “And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receives me. But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea. Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh!” (Matthew 18:5-7) People who repeatedly break their word frequently cause others to doubt God and, thereby, open the door for the others to stumble (the literal meaning of the Greek word translated “offend" in the passage quoted above).
So, if you are leading a group of God’s people in any capacity, and have fallen into the trap of thinking that you are exempt from fulfilling your obligations to them because of your own perceived loftiness or the importance of your work or position, you are not only deceived, but you are also setting yourself up for a terrible fall. “Pride goes before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.” (Proverbs 16:18) “And he (Jesus) said unto them, The kings of the Gentiles exercise lordship over them; and they that exercise authority upon them are called benefactors. But ye shall not be so: but he that is greatest among you, let him be as the younger; and he that is chief, as he that doth serve. For whether is greater, he that sits at meat, or he that serveth? is not he that sitteth at meat? but I am among you as he that serveth.” (Luke 22:25-27)
There is no way around it: Integrity must be the hallmark of our lives if we are going to be effective at modeling and verbally relaying the love of God to people!  Even our worship depends upon this. “But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him. God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.” (John 4:23-24)
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